Some times, telling the truth is the kindest thing you can do. It's hard when the truth is unpleasant. However, it's possible that a person needs the kindness of that truth.
And some times, it's best to keep your mouth shut. Smile, nod, and go about your business.
The 'say or not to say' dilemma comes to a head this time of year.
At this point in my life, I decide based on the relationship. If it's a close friend, I might find a way to tell her she's being controlling. A neighbor? I won't bother.
How do you decide when to speak or when not to speak?
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