Dax Moy recently challenged his readers to come up with fifteen BIG goals they would like to accomplish over the course of their lives. I thought I would share with you ten goals I would like to accomplish over the course of my life.
1. To live at least one month in Paris and at least a month at the ocean every year.
2. Have enough resources – money and time – to live, exciting and joyful life with my family while having plenty of resources to donate to people in need.
3. Feel deeply comfortable with my physical manifestion – looks, age, and weight.
4. Learn the boundaries of what is enough, what is too much and where I want to draw those lines so that I can be content that I do enough.
5. Be the best wife and friend I can possibly be.
6. Learn to communicate in Spanish, French, and Irish Gaelic.
7. Have at least one novel hit the NY Times bestseller’s list.
8. Live an active, joyful and fulfilling life into my one hundreds.
9. Create a serial fiction for every major city in the United States.
10. Dedicate myself to creating quality fiction which provides the reader with an uplifting, curious, fascinating, hopeful, emotional experience.
What’s on your ten big lifelong goals list?
P.S. This is a great vid of Dax talking about how to get your goals.

What’s on your ten big lifelong goals list?
1. To get to the end of it without fucking anymore people up.
2. See #1
TWMark – These are reasons I love you!
I’ll have to think on that. My goals are very fluid and change with the tide that is my life. What was a goal for me yesterday may not be a goal for me today as my priorities shift. (I call it the art of Jen: the art of Zen)
I feel queasy saying this, but I don’t have any.
Hey – thanks for the video clip. I share #7, #8 and #10 with you. Strange, I know…
What would one thing on my own list be? Hmm…
To have a residence in both Halifax, Nova Scotia and Toronto, Ontario and pop back and forth so I’ll always be where I love and with the people I love.
I love when you make me think. I will get back to you on my own blog, if you don’t mind.
If I had read this yesterday, I could have listed 10 easily. Today, I am floundering. I need to think about it for a bit….
Your list is very realistic for you. There is nothing on it that you can’t do easily.
I have given up (for now) on reaching enlightenment in this lifetime but I hope to become my best self in every way. This would entail being a perfectly supportive wife, mother and friend and successfully turning my own pain into creative work and compassion.